They’ve told me about their diabetes, sex addiction, failed relationships, and bitterness towards their ex who ruined them financially.
Most men love to talk about themselves at the onset of a relationship.
They share information that they believe endears them to you.
And then when they get into a relationship with you, they often clam up. But at the same time, how wonderful is it to have a secret portal to his character and relationship-readiness from that first conversation?
Two words of advice for women dating after 40: PAY ATTENTION.
If you want to save yourself from days, weeks, months, or years of suffering and pain, pay close attention to the words and actions of a man.
And believe it or not, the best time to pick up on any red flags is during your very first conversation. Men often reveal just about everything you need to know about their character and what you can expect from them in a relationship.You are not yet clouded with hormones like Oxytocin, the bonding hormone that is released through sexual activity.You know, that hormone that makes you a little stupid and puts a blindfold over your gut feelings about him?This is the hormone that has you shove all the negative character traits he displays under the proverbial rug.I’ll show you how you can detect red flags on the first phone call to save yourself from future heartache.I have had the most revealing first phone calls with men I connected with online.