Gay dating tips for older men

But, is flirting with a younger gay guy the same as flirting with someone your own age? You don't have to pull out a new bag of tricks to snag a newbie.

In today's complicated world, he might be calling work, his sitter, or his ex-wife to see if she can pick up the kids.

Chill out, and use the time to call your sponsor for encouragement.

Eight: In the old days, it was common, and common sense, to say that, if you sleep with someone, you are also sleeping with everyone he's slept with.

Are you in your 40's and dating (or wanting to date) someone who is 20 years younger than you?

The 20-something gays are more bold, more aggressive and much more self-aware than previous generations.

Just keep in mind that there is almost a 20 year age difference, so while he's rockin' to Taylor Swift, you're humming The Commodores.But, generation aside, if he shows interest then he's definitely digging your vibe.If he's 22 years old and wears glasses and weighs 108 pounds and says "for some reason people tend to think I'm a Twink," feign surprise and say "men are so into labels." Then help him lift his martini glass to his lips and move on.Six: Unless he can juggle or tap dance in bed, "versatile bottom" means only one thing, so be prepared to take charge if things go well.If you're lying when you call yourself a "versatile top," either call it quits now or start working on your oral communication skills.Seven: If he insists on taking "important calls" several times during your date, don't automatically think he's blowing you off.